Distance Yourself if Possible
If your daughter lives away from you and tries to manipulate you emotionally when she visits you or calls you, distance yourself from her. Sometimes the best way to is to avoid them because you cannot fulfill their unrealistic expectations.
If you live with a narcissistic daughter, try to avoid having too many conversations and arguments. Go to your room and spend most of your time sitting in a different room while she’s home. If she displays no signs of empathy or respect for you, don’t let it go on for long.
Ask her to Leave
Offer her help and get a therapist’s appointment. When you realize that your daughter has a personality disorder, you should reach out for help as soon as possible. If she is not willing to see the therapist and you are always feeling emotionally manipulated and invaded, do something about it. People often start to feel that something is wrong with their children when enough damage has been done
If she is manipulating you and it’s getting unbearable, consider your options for distancing. If she is an adult ask her to leave.
Do Not Tolerate Abuse
The narcissist needs constant attention and admiration from others and when they don’t get it, they feel offended. A narcissist can get abusive or violent when things are not going the way they want.
In such instances, you should be clear about setting boundaries, no matter how hard it is. When they get violent or abusive, walk away from them, or hang up the phone. If the situation worsens, don’t hesitate to call the police. You don’t deserve to be treated badly if your daughter is a narcissist. When the situation is calm again, tell them that you won’t tolerate an abusive child.
Don't Get Manipulated
Narcissists have a burning desire to make people do what they want. They manipulate the individuals around them and treat them like they don’t deserve happiness and appreciation. Don’t let the narcissist control your life. The best way to tackle a narcissist is to avoid listening to them at the very beginning. When you feel that your daughter is dictating the rules on when you will leave the house and who you can meet or what you will eat, you need to make it clear that you are a free being and you have the right to do whatever you want. It may trigger a reaction from her, but it is necessary to confront the narcissist in such situations.
