Ask Them
They might want to hug you too but don’t want to feel awkward if you don’t hug them back. Ask them if you can hug them or let them know that you are going to hug them. If the guy and you are friends, say something like; “get over here” or just greet them like you normally would and hug them. Keep the hug quick, if you’ve never hugged them before.
Don’t Give them Mixed Feelings
If the guy you are hugging is just a guy friend, you should not give them intimate hugs. Hugging them for longer might make them think that you are interested in them or give them mixed feelings. Keep your hugs short or give them a side hug if you have to.
Side Hug
Side hugs are friendly and suitable if the guy you are giving a hug is your friend. Use on arm to hug them just like you would get together for a picture. A side hg also means that you want to stay close friends with the guy but you don’t want to hurt their feelings by making them think that you two can be in a relationship.
Understand Their Body Language
Understanding the person’s body language is important when you are about to hug them. If they are interested in making physical contact, their body should be open and welcoming. For example, if the person extends an arm towards you and is looking at you or is smiling, it’s probably because they want to hug you. But, when a guy is standing with arms folded, it’s a clear indicator they are not ready to get in a hug.
